#18: Reacting or Responding: You can Choose
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This week we are exploring concepts to choose to react or respond.
Consider the following :
A reaction is about the moment whereas a response is about the outcome.
and
Understanding how my emotions drive my decisions will improve relationships, productivity, and possibilities.
Tips from Trish
Mirroring:
- Starts with listening CAREFULLY to the other person.
- Or if you’re the first to speak, as a “learning” question to warm them up.
- “It’s obvious you’re upset. Can you tell me what’s wrong?”
- If they become angry or hostile, we can schedule a later time to talk.
- If they offer a calm response, we can take a slow deep breath and say,
- “Let me see if I’ve got that… you are angry because…” and then we ask “is there more?” They may have more, may not. We summarize and ask “have I got that right?”
BETTER LISTENING is really at the core with this example of reacting and responding in a way that can more successfully manage or control our emotions in the moment.
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I am Carol, a small business mentor helping women solopreneurs find their focus with empathy, offering strategies and fresh marketing ideas. I can help you say NO to overwhelm. Get things done in my free virtual co-working session every Thursday. Sign up at
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Trish is a professional certified life coach who helps determined people navigate their big life hurdles and come out stronger on the other side. She works with both individuals and groups and launches her “Small Circle Group Coaching” series June 9. Just 6 women for 4 sessions of small-group coaching. More details at healthylifemindset.com
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Hello from your host, Carol Clegg – your mindset and accountability coach for women coaches, entrepreneurs and small teams!
As a coach or heart led entrepreneur, you know all the right tools and strategies to support your clients—but when it comes to applying them to yourself, it’s easy to get stuck. You might find it hard to prioritize self-care, stay motivated, or maintain a positive mindset, especially when juggling the demands of your business. That’s where I come in.
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